However it's fascinating to me how everyone needs different doses of it. I have friends who hit a point where they just NEED some alone time to recharge, reset. I think I fall more in the middle of the spectrum, I enjoy some solitude, but too much of it and I start to get in my own head.
I didn't really want to write about this, because it's a little bit sensitive and personal and honestly maybe border-line childish? And while what I'm about to say might be a big huge DUH, I don't know, I kind of want to
Too much occasional alone time has led to too much occasional social media time, which in turn has led to me playing the comparison game. It's almost humorous, because I used to YELL at my friends when they would do it. But in a recent conversation, the tables turned.
Basically, I disclosed that I was considering unfollowing a handful of people on social media because their lives were making me sad. Not because their lives themselves were sad, but because of what they were constantly portraying.
Some of you might be reading this and are like, "Wait hold on though Kait, you're posting pictures of the beach every other day."
However, my life is not a beach.
|I took this last night, isn't it pretty!|
Social media can really suck man. It can suck because, it basically allows people to paint whatever picture they want about their lives. And rarely is someone going to choose to display a bad day, a sad day, an argument had, etc.
DISCLAIMER: I am not unhappy. Please don't read into this post. But let's be real here, we are all struggling with different things, we all have problems, there are always a variety of challenges.
Basically, I had to be forcefully reminded of this by my friend, like I suddenly had a maturity level of a brainwashed 16 year old whose only goal in life is to be part of the cool crowd.
Is that still a thing anymore? I hope not.
So I'm posting this as a reminder, mostly because I needed the reminder. Pictures, and statuses, and videos - they don't fully represent that person, or their life. And while it's awesome to be able to share the beautiful and happy PARTS of peoples' lives from over 6,000 miles away, I need to cut out the bad habit of looking at those parts, and assuming it's a whole.
Wow, that looks like an awesome weekend they had. I'm pumped for them!
End thought. Stop there. Don't start comparing, leave it at that.
It's actually a good rule for life as a whole - not just social media.
I hope this doesn't somehow offend anyone. It's simply exactly what I wrote. Actually, if it does offend someone, I'm not sorry; this is just another part of social media. We all have the ability to express ourselves however we want (outside of nudity, that's pretty often blocked still) - and this is just me expressing a recent struggle.
ANYWAYS, love you all.